Everyone has problems. There are
many problems someone has to overcome. Many of these problems are small but to
someone who is facing them it may seem like the biggest obstacle they have yet
faced. For example there was one problem that I had to overcome when I was a
child. The problem was with my mom’s side of the family and the way they
treated me. They would always consider and view me as the black sheep of the family
(even though at the time I was only 8-9 years old but they still consider me
the black sheep). They did not want me around and I could tell by the way they
treated me. Everything I did was wrong and nothing I ever did could be right. There
was once a time when I used to talk to my cousin. She was nice and she was a
good friend (or at least that’s what I thought).
The day that everything started to
make sense was when i attended a party. I was talking to my cousin. We had
decided to play tag. We were playing for most of the party and everything
seemed to be going very well and then her mother called her over. Her mother
told her to go inside the house and to stay there. So I was left alone. I told
my mom, “Mommy, she doesn’t want her to play with me.” “That’s not true she
probably has to go do something inside that’s all. I bet she does want to play
with you.” “Her mom doesn’t want me around her.” “Do not think that she
probably just wants her to do something important and that’s why she called
her.” “Ok mom.” Then when she came back out i went over to her and she just
ignored me. “Why don’t you want to talk?” “I’m not supposed to talk to you, my
mom told me not to” “what why?” “She just told me not to, so can you go away
and leave me alone.” “Ok I will leave.” So I walked away and she went over to
her brothers. Her brothers would always talk badly about me. They would always
think more of themselves. When I would walk by them they would throw what ever
they found laying by they would mostly be rocks or pebbles. Every time they
would laugh as they threw the rocks at me and she would join in and laugh at me
too. Sometimes I just wanted to throw something back at them but I couldn’t.
They would always ostracize me. In their
eyes i was no good. They would always put me down. Even the adults would act
like childern at times. They wouldnt want any of their chidern to be around me.
When i was having fun it was wrong, so they would always find a way to make the
fun for me end. My parents were blind and they never saw what they did to me. When
ever I told them they would tell me to deal with it or that I was imagining
things because they were good children. My parents thought nothing of my words,
they still think this way. Nothing was going my way. Every party or every
family event i went to it would be the same ordeal. My moms family didnt like
me and i couldnt change that. I would always think that it was my fault that
they didnt like me. I thought i did something wrong. Their words and their hate
were getting to me. I had to stop but this obstacle was very hard to overcome. I
didnt get over this obstacle until i got to middle school.
Once I got to my middle school year
I put my foot down. I was done listening to them and what they had to say. I didn’t
care that they didn’t like me. They tried to make me go to Maxson and not Hubbard
but they couldn’t convince me I refused to go to the same school they were
going to. I finally got to let my feelings out and tell them that they had no
right to tell me what to do. They were shocked at the fact that I actually
talked back to them; I thought it was inevitable; I was a ticking time bomb
just waiting to explode. At that moment they had nothing else to say so I got
up and walked away with dignity. My parents even thought it was a good idea to
go to Maxson but I refused to go to that school. And they decided to actually
hear me out and let me go to Hubbard.
Once I got into Hubbard, I felt
like it was going to be a big change with the fact that I actually stood up to
my mean cousins and the fact that I was going to a new school. So in the end I
over came my obstacle, even if it did take a few years. I stood up to my
cousins, even though they still look down at me, but I learned to actually
forgive and forget whatever they said in the past ,even though I will never be
able to trust them. They sometimes try
to talk to me now and make up for what they did in the past, but I think its no
use considering the fact that the things they did in the past actually made my
life horrible at times. Considering all they did I believe it only made me
stronger and wiser and I thank them for that because I wouldn’t want to be like
them or even be friends with people like that. I’m grateful that obstacle was
put on my path it has made me the person I am today and it has made me a
greater person and brought me great friends I know wont treat me as bad as my
family. Obstacles are hard to face but you can overcome them if you are
determined enough. Obstacles only make you stronger.